My Romantic Breaks

A Romantic Weekend Break in the Cotswolds

It was late on friday afternoon that I started to tingle with anticipation at my first weekend away with my new friend Gemma. She is a lovely English young lady with a darker mediterranean look that I found breathtaking when we first met only 6 weeks ago. We decided last weekend over dinner that we should make this the weekend where we spend all our time together and see how we got on.  I was very confident that we would have a lovely time as I was absolutely smitten and she seems to be enthusiastic towards me too.

She had said she fancied a romantic weekend break in the country and left me to choose where we were going, a romantic hotel and make sure that the basics were in place to have a lovely break. I dived on the internet on the monday morning and looked for a romantic place to stay.

A found a web site called  Mr & Mrs Smith which seemed very appropriate and I looked through their selection of picturesque properties in the Cotswold. I have to say they all looked wonderful to me and I could imagine us at any of them. I settled for a Hotel called Cotswold 88 which is set in Painswick Gloucestershire, for no other reason than the night time picture on the website made it look very romantic to me.

Gemma lives in Highgate so on saturday morning I zipped round to pick her up  at about 10am loaded her stuff into the back of my oversensible looking car and headed for the M4.  I have to say she had packed far more stuff than me and I wondered if she was hoping to do lots more than I was anticipating.  Anyway there was plenty of time to find out what she was expecting on the way down. Painswick didn’t appear to be the easiest destination to reach from London when examining the map but we had chosen a good time to go and the roads were fairly clear. We sailed down the M4 to Cirencester and cut across to Stroud where I thought we could stop for some local brew and a baguette.  We were a touch early to check into our hotel so he wandered around until we found somewhere that looked inviting which isn’t difficult in this part of the world.

By this time we were getting along famously and having a wonderful time, although I still didn’t really know much about her likes and dislikes. She had a Brie and Cranberry and I had a BLT but that didn’t tell me anything much. Coming out of the pub I was tempted to hold her hand but the conversation was very light and cheery so I thought I would wait until later. She had been on a trip to Seville the previous month and was telling me all about it on the way back to the car. She can speak fluent Spanish and with her dark colouring could easily pass for a native senorita.

The Cotswold 88 Hotel is a touch north of Stroud and we arrived shortly after 3pm. The check in was painless although I always fear being interrogated as to why I am sharing a room with this woman who is clearly not my wife. Its never happens but I  stumble through registration everytime fearing the worst. We were shown to our very elegantly furnished room and when I got my little case and Gemmas 2 cases and a bag into the room I was pleased to close the door on the outside world and start to enjoy our weekend in private.

I had hoped romance was going to be a big part of the weekend and so I had bought Gemma a small present to wear later. Though some may say it was more like a present for myself of course as it was fairly see thru.  I had looked for something more romantic than erotic as I felt it was safest in the circumstances and actually I was feeling more romantic towards her.  I had bought her a Luxxa Verseau Deshabille. It was very sexy and I couldnt wait to see her in it but she was making herself busy unpacking and hanging her clothes but looking happy with life.  I was very happy with life. I looked around and could see a huge very comfortable looking bed , a wonderful state of the art bathroom and the most gorgeous looking lady I could wish for. What could I have done to deserve such a situation? Don’t know , don’t care just don’t blow it I thought to myself.

From the second the room door closed behind us I wanted to rip her clothes off but I was showing admirable restraint as she regimentally unpacked all her clothes, hung them up and generally got herself organised. How come its always me thats impatient to get to the good bit ?  Gemma then suggested an afternoon stroll around the village to build up an appetite for dinner.  I had a more interesting way of building up my appetite in mind but decided to agree to a country walk with my thoughts now set on the passionate evening to come. I must say we had a lovely walk through a picturesque village but were having such fun in each others company that I really didn’t take much notice of the surroundings. Gemma was all consuming , such an attractive woman and when she smiled or laughed I just wanted to hold her tightly. She seemed perfect in these moments.

We talked and talked and their was rarely a silence. It was all silly stories that made each other laugh and the time went so quickly I couldnt believe it. When we got back to the room their was not much time before dinner. Well actually there was plenty of time for a man to get changed and ready but not much time for a woman. Gemma was no exception she didnt want to be hurried in her preparation to go out and to be honest I didn’t mind a bit because I knew she would look fabulous when she was finished. I gave her the lingerie just before we were due to go down to dinner and I am happy to say she looked very pleased to receive it although she didn’t comment.

As we took our seats at the dinner table I looked at Gemma and couldnt help but smile as I realised, once again, how lucky I was to have met such a person. We had a super time at dinner with the fabulous food , chilled wine and great atmosphere all adding to our blossoming relationship. We were at the table for nearly 2 hours but it seemed like 10 minutes as it often does when you are enjoying yourself.  As we rose  I had a marvellous feeling of anticipation. The alcohol had loosened us up a touch and we were very relaxed in each others company. To be honest, I couldn’t wait to get her back to the room. As we were walking up the stairs I remembered we had not really had a big kiss and suddenly thought ‘I hope she is good kisser’ . It is such an important part of love making to me.

As soon as we were back in the room she grabbed a little bag and shot into the bathroom. She said she was going to try and make herself look beautiful which I ook as a joke as she already had my absolute attention. I watched each wiggle intently as she headed across the room. While she was in there I dimmed the lights and made myself as comfortable as possible in nervous circumstances. As the door opened she killed the light in the bathroom and out into the half light steppeda vsion of lovelyness. Not in the item I had just give her but an equally intoxicating outfit, a 3 piece Baby Doll Setin pink. She looked so incredibly beautiful I thought I would burst.

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Be the Giver of Wild Orgasms

Wouldn’t it be great to be off for a passionate break knowing that you were equipped to give your gorgeous partner Wild Orgasms all weekend long?  The greatest thing a man can have going into a sexual encounter is confidence in his ability to perform to a standard that will have his partner purring.   

If you are struggling with confidence because of previous mishaps or disasters don’t despair. It happens to everybody at some point.  Go into every encounter confidently and without distraction.  That is a key to setting up the right mood for passion.  Learn how to start slowly by being able to provide a firm but gentle massage as you have plenty of time.  Massage can be a gentle start to foreplay and slowly getting more intimate.  Learn from the reactions you get from what you are doing and take your pointers from there.  Take it slow if you have a hotel room for the weekend.  The longer the love making goes on the better the weekend will be.

  If you are planning a weekend of love making you better have an arsenal of love making techniques, know the best positions for intercourse and know some triggers that lead to the female orgasm.  Ambiance is key too as much of the female orgasm is the head.  So a lovely room with romantic music in the background would be a big plus to start with.

There is a g spot somewhere south of her equator too.  It would be a massive help if you knew how to find it wouldn’t it?





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Valentines Songs

Are there so many great Valentines Songs to choose from it is difficult to pick a few out and say they are better than others.  Top Love Songs are very personal because they make you recognise something in your own love life and re live an emotion again and again. It could be a painful emotion or a happy emotion but somehow we gain pleasure from being reminded about it.

The first song I have chosen is one that relates to a recent split and the feelings involved.

If you enjoyed I Miss You you can get it or the album as a mp3 download here Valentines Songs

The next song is about a love that has been good but may have run its course and finding it is hard to let go.

The John Mayer album is available in MP3 to download here  at Valentines Songs  Friends Lovers or Nothing is just one of the emotional tracks on the album

My Best Friend is a great way of telling your lover how you feel about them

My Best Friend is on Tim Mcgraws Greatest Hits available here  at Valentines Songs

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Valentines Gifts for her

One thing that most women will always find acceptable is  posh chocolates.  I am going to show you 3 of the valentine gifts for her available at different price points to suit your pocket.

Firstly, above @ £19.95 this Red Heart Box filled with an assortment of dark chocolates from Charbonnel et Walker. The classic flavours are all hidden beautifully inside the romantic red heart shaped box. 


Secondly below  @ £15.95 is a superior quality Chocolate Heart. Ideal for your Valentine . A milk chocolate heart filled with foil red wrapped praline hearts . ‘Be my Valentine’ gift tag attached with red ribbon. Chocolate of high quality

Lastly and most expensively, but worth it, I recommend The Valentine Chocolate Hamper. priced @ £35.95.  

Absolutely beautiful presentation with a red rose design with ribbon and gift tag. The box contains assorted superior quality chocolates, but also butter caramels and foil wrapped chocolate hearts. Also contains a gift card for your message of love.



     For a greater choice of chocolate Valentine Gifts for her


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Anyone for tennis?

One thing that is surprising romantic in my view is natural smell of the body. It is commonly thought that the lady in the relationship should smell nice and to this end wear lovely perfume. The man is attracted to the sweet smelling lady. This is very true but there is a strong attraction to the red in the face , glowing in the body of a lady who has just been exercising or playing tennis.  There is something very sexy about a woman in that cooling down period after exercise that perhaps they don’t appreciate as much as men do.  That natural healthy look is so appealing but most of them don’t seem to realise. I love to smooch with my girl when she is all hot and bothered.

Short skirt, slight glow  and red cheeks.  You can’t beat it

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Romantic Weekend Getaways

What do you think are the most important ingredients for  romantic weekend getaways? The most important ingredient obviously is the person who is the object of your desire. The next thing is that you both have the same romantic intent for your time together and you make every effort to make it a shared beautiful experience for each other.  You really need to be prepared to go and switch your mobile off and concentrate solely on the relationship to get the most out of the time together. After that is straight in your head you can think about the romantic hotel you wish to go, the intimate apparel and sexy lingerie , the food , the music and any gifts you might buy to complete a fantastic weekend.

If you would find a hotel next to the River Thames romantic the Compleat Angler Marlow would make a fantastic venue as its a super 400 year old Country House Hotel in a great position right next to the bridge in Marlow High Street.It is situated in an idyllic location on the banks of the River Thames. The oak-panelled cocktail bar is relaxing, the dining is a choice of one of the two award-winning restaurants or you can even enjoy a champagne picnic aboard one of the hotels private boats at certain times of year. There are 64 luxurious bedrooms and suites all decorated to the highest standard and have flat screen televisions, climate control and complimentary broadband. For stunning views, choose an executive river view& room or one of our larger feature rooms with private balconies and dramatic views of Marlow weir. Bowaters, the hotel’s restaurant has two AA rosettes and offers modern British food.

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Intimate Apparel

An essential ingredient for a romantic weekend break is beautiful or seductive Lingerie or Intimate Apparel. There are hundreds of places to buy this type of clothing but Delicates is a top site where you will only find top quality items that are assured to enhance your weekend and other intimate moments in the future.

Bear in mind that this is a special occasion, unless you are very lucky, and the lingerie can reflect that. So if you are a lady buying for this occasion or a man spoiling your lady you can be more imaginative than you would be for home.  I would like to show you what I mean with a couple of examples from the Delicates Catalogue.  What about a cupless corset ? The Basic Instinct corset is an fabulous cupless corset which alternates sheer tattoo effect lace with daring hints of skin and also includes matching thong & gloves. I can assure you the effect is stunning.

If you are looking for sheer elegance and classic beauty I would recommend taking a look at the Sylvie Teddy by Diki. This lace & silk g string teddy offers beauty, elegance and the risque  all featured in one stunning teddy. This is truly a gift for an angel. The matching jacket adds perfectly to the effect. Imagine coming back to your hotel room to find your girl standing in the half light of bedside lamp in this outfit just waiting for you. It doesnt get any better than that.

Changing sites now another wonderful ensemble that could enhance your saturday night is the Bedroom set by Shirley of Hollywood this consists Stretch Lace under wired SHELF BRA with hook back and adjustable straps, GARTERBELT with adjustable back and garters and a sexy, strappy THONG PANTY. Guaranteed to heat up any situation I would suggest.

If you fancy a bit of role playing on your break meet up with the sexiest maid in town. This Maids Set by Shirley of Hollywood contains Stretch Lace and Fishnet 4 Pc Maid Set includes baby doll, G-String, stockings and cap and will be an absolute knock out for your romantic break.


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Top Love Songs

Here are a some  videos of my favourite Top Love Songs that I hope will get you into the right frame of mind for a romantic weekend getaway.

These Top Love Songs have the lyrics on screen so that you can sing along and get that loving feeling



My girl reminds me of walking in the country on a spring day. Feeling happy and content that I have a wonderful lady in my life.


Its your love is everything I think about my girl. I could have written it myself!

Wonderful Tonight instantly makes me want to slow dance with my lover

Wild Horses has always made me feel romantic

Old Rod has done a few that put me in the mood for romance but I love this one



Norah Jones has given me some of my most romantic moments

I don’t know how many times I have made love with Shania providing the soundtrack

Smooth is exactly that. It is so sexy !

I really think this song is so romantic in a strange hotel room sort of way

A great song to cheer yourself up and feel warm inside

This is the song that I want to play to my lover today.

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